Sunday, July 18, 2010

Creating a Learning Atmosphere


In a previous article I wrote about learning organizations and the five disciplines that, when fully integrated, will transform an organization into a learning organization. This article is devoted to the first of those five disciplines, personal mastery. Personal mastery is the foundation on which organizational learning is built.Personal mastery, as defined by Peter Senge, is "the discipline of personal growth and learning." (The Fifth Discipline, p. It is about creating a desired future and moving toward it. People with high levels of personal mastery are skilled at creating a personal vision and accurately assessing their current reality with respect to that vision. The gap between current reality and personal vision propels them forward. This gap is often referred to as "creative tension." Personal mastery is about generating and sustaining creative tension and living comfortably with that tension.So how does one recognize individuals with a high level of personal mastery? Below is a list of characteristics of those individuals:
They have a special sense of purpose - a calling.
They accurately assess their current reality; in particular, they quickly recognize inaccurate assumptions.
They see change as opportunity.
They are deeply inquisitive.
They place a high priority on personal connections without giving up their individuality.
They are systemic thinkers, that is, they see themselves as one part in a larger system.These people are continually expanding their capacity to create their desired future. In doing so, they create the potential for considerable organizational capacity building, a potential that can only be realized through integrating all five disciplines of organizational learning.How do individuals develop personal mastery?Developing personal mastery is a lifelong process, and it is never too late to start.
Thinking systemically: When you encounter an unexpected or undesirable outcome, try to think about what processes enabled that outcome to happen, rather than looking for someone to blame.
Assessing current reality: In order to be effective at assessing current reality, you need to be very aware of the assumptions you make about existing situations. Those assumptions shape, and sometimes cloud, our view of reality. Assessing current reality requires a great deal of reflection on your own thought processes and an ability to recognize your assumptions.By balancing advocacy with inquiry, we take as much time to understand the points of view of others as we do in explaining our own point of view. Those skilled at personal mastery will gently probe until they fully understand a different point of view while inviting others to question their own perspectives and thought processes.It involves finding the common ground within various perspectives and broadening the understanding of all involved. People with high levels of personal mastery understand that they only have a piece of the puzzle and only by inquiring into the points of view of others can those puzzle pieces begin to fit together and take shape into a clearer picture of current reality. Each of the above techniques can take a lifetime to master. In fact, one never really "arrives"; there is always something new to learn. How can organizations foster personal mastery?Organizations must have people at all levels capable of personal mastery in order to become successful learning organizations. It is important to remember, however, that this is a matter of choice. The most important thing an organization can do to help employees develop personal mastery is to create an environment conducive to individual pursuits. Here are some ideas for doing that:The problem with this is that an organization will often settle on the quick fix rather than take the time to truly understand the nature of the problem. Encourage employees to look deeper into the nature of problems, particularly recurring problems.
Encourage employees to challenge the status quo: New employees are particularly good at doing this because they don't have a history with the organization and are not yet assimilated into its culture. The results will be infectious.
Change your assumptions about what motivates your employees: Most organizations, whether they would admit it or not, use external incentives (money, recognition, fear) to motivate their employees. Personal mastery is all about internal motivation, and under the right conditions, it will blossom.
Be a model: It is important that organizational leaders practice their own personal mastery. By setting an example, you will send the message that this is important.
Make a commitment for the long haul: Personal mastery is not a single event or one-day workshop. It is also not a precise process. Make every effort to be flexible in helping employees develop personal mastery and realize that the gains will be incremental over time.
By creating a safe and supportive environment where employees can develop their personal mastery, you are helping them generate that creative tension that will propel them forward and ultimately move the organization along the path toward becoming a learning organization.

Sunday, May 30, 2010

I've GOT something for YOU...


Hello Folks!

I'll bet you are expecting me to start in on you about journaling, connecting with yourself, spirituality and all that heavy stuff....and eventually I WILL again!

Just not today....What I do want to express is that this is a wonderful opportunity to go hang with family, friends or just relax for a minute and observe the Memorial Day weekend. There are various events and venues occurring so check your local listings, free printed papers and take advantage of some great inexpensive or even better, FREE entertainment. Remember, our Armed Forces and be thankful for their sacrifice on this weekend. Oh, that's right, I did say I had something for you...Make new memories and ENJOY your WEEKEND! That's pretty much it...yep, I think that was IT. Until next time....

Friday, May 21, 2010

FREE Guide-Your Spirituality Journal


A few years ago, I read Stephanie Stokes Oliver's Seven Soulful Secrets for Finding Your Purpose and Minding your Mission, which basically gives seven simple, but influential factors that actually spell the word, Purpose (purpose, ultimacy, relaxation, positivity, optimum health, spirituality and esteem). At the end of each of the seven chapter themes, she offers a journal page. We encourage you to take advantage of the "Spirituality" Journal (questions) below...

Use these questions to provoke real thought into your spirituality, which by the way, is NOT the same as religion.

How do you feel about your level of spirituality?


How is your life influenced by faith?


What things give you hope?


How are you giving love and compassion?


How do all of the above push you toward your purpose?

Monday, May 17, 2010

Crush It

http://www.amazon.com/gp/mpd/permalink/m2X9S8LNEBP84R

Once common denominator that most writers share is the love of reading. Reading good material entices good writing creativity in many cases. So for most avid readers and writers, it is not uncommon to have Amazon.com saved to their "favorites" on their computer and as a regular purchaser to have recommended purchases sent to your email address(es) suggesting purchase of similar materials. Needless to say, I got one of those regular emails and sometimes, they "grab" my attention and other times, they are bypassed for more pressing issues. Well, this particular time was a "grab" my attention moment and in the process stumbled across the popular book, "Crush It: Why NOW Is the time to Cash In on Your Passion by Gary Vaynerchuk. Check out his promo video above. I was motivated and inspired just listening to his enthusiasm and passion for living the life as CEO of his own destiny. He heavily discusses marketing and living a life that allows you to live out your passion on a daily basis...for many, they relate this to being "a job, work, volunteer position or whatever one does to make money", but what Gary discusses all connects to something totally different than carrying out a company's goals and earning another structure tons of money annually. Gary, in my mere, opinion is talking about that thing that sends you to bed late, awakens you early and you do not mind any of it because it is as effortless as breathing air and that my FRIEND, is passion. Passion is indescribable and it propels you to operate, speak, move and think in limitless ways. Gary seems to believe that kind of passion and the right exposure (marketing) will put you where ever it is you desire to be. Like he mentioned in the video about encouraging a friend to continuously seek "beautiful women" and eventually one of them would say, "YES"!
To me, that just sounds like good ole perseverance and consistently going after what you want. While not everyone is meant to be an entrepreneur, business owner, millionaire, librarian, structured or whatever, there is a life of joy, peace and happiness meant for each of us inside. There is that passion that Gary speaks of for each and every one of us, I believe if we only identify it, connect with it and seek the limitless ways to live in it, we will have created for ourselves a life of abundance!
Find your passion and STAY there....

Sunday, May 9, 2010

The EYES that watched ME!


If don't know about you, but many times when I wanted to give up, I remembered who was watching me; Many times when I wanted to respond the wrong way, but instead took the higher road, I remembered who was watching me; When I don't feel like working, know things have to be managed and I am the only person who can manage them, I remembered who was watching me. To all the wonderful Mothers, I know and don't, always remember that the eyes of our children are watching us! Being a parent has raised the bar for me, made me much better than I was suppose to be and kept me in line, when I wanted to do otherwise. So today, I celebrate those eyes that were watching ME, that molded me into being a MOTHER!
Happy Mother's Day....

Friday, May 7, 2010

Recent conversation with a Blogger...


Recently in a discussion about life struggles and how to handle them, one person wrote:


"In life there are highs and lows but when the lows start to out weigh the highs, that’s when life starts to become a strain and very hard to enjoy. For example more arguing in a marriage than anything else, the heartache a mother gets when her child decides on a path that she know will destroy him or her and list goes on. These are things that can cause you to be very bitter, stressed and have no peace. Sometimes, you can not find a solution; Can you attest to what I’m talking about? and what would you do to bring some peace of mind in your life?"


Life brings us all types of challenges, some good and some not so good. While reading the response above from the Blogger for the first time, I thought to myself, this person is seeking answers. Answers many times, lie within us. We must quiet down, find your calm place (possibly in meditation, yoga, wandering, classical music, etc.), even for just a short period of time and allow our minds to rest and listen, for the answers will come. For some, its seeing it written down which brings us back to journal writing. The journal is unbiased and objective because it will only show what we have put into it. If we have put in a little, we will only come back to a little and the same for when we purge our thoughts onto paper, we come back to a time and period that reflects whatever it is we are experiencing. For each, the approach will be different but do whatever it is that consciously gets you to a place of calmness and peace so that that the answers can come. Answers truly do LIE WITHIN us!

Friday, April 30, 2010

Journal Writing: Helps us define our "WHY"

What is your why?

He who has a why to live can bear almost any how. -Friedrich Nietzsche

Finding your why is an important aspect in almost every decision that you make in your life. If you do not know the answer to the question, "Why" then you should not move on until you do. A lot of times we avoid learning our why, because it is painful, because it is difficult, but learning our why is imperative to making sure we are moving forward in a positive manner.
Too many times we go through life with no purpose or direction, never asking, "why?" This can create setbacks in our life if we do not answer the hard questions. Not asking why can cause us to spend too much money, or eat the wrong foods, study for the wrong career, take the wrong jobs, marry the wrong person, this can go on and on.
Asking why before we make important and crucial decisions will go far in helping us learn to be responsible for ourselves and our choices. Also knowing why can help us do what we need to do even when it is not easy.
Let me be the first to challenge anyone, who is not already doing so to write down the thoughts that come to mind when you ask yourself, "WHY". When we write these thoughts down and are able to return to them hours, days and even years later we understand what it was that motivated us to our destination. The journal is your personal record keeper of the thoughts, ideas, secrets, plans and ideologies that live inside us. Answer your "WHY" in your mind and in your journal.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Start an Accountability Journal

Journals serve more than one purpose. Below, 1 Year Millionaire Journey Strategists, Kim Crouch and Lisa Maria Carroll enlighten us as to how journaling helps us see our process and progress. The written journal gives us a written view of both and reminds us how to be successful.

Take Action Tuesday: Start An Accountability Journal
Posted: 20 Apr 2010 12:00 AM PDT

The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.Walt Disney

Journals are amazing things. When done right and honestly, they give us great insight into how we really feel, think and believe. They really teach us a lot about our self and they often serve as a vehicle of growth. Today, I’m encouraging you to begin keeping an accountability journal not only to record your achievements but also to measure your progress. The truth is over the years, I have come to realize that the difference between those who succeed and those who don’t is one thing: action. Many people say they really want success, but one of the reasons many people aren’t successful is because a gap exists between their actions and what they say they really want. Accountability is always the process that determines whether your words, thoughts and actions are in alignment. One way to know if you’re in alignment is to keep an accountability journal. This is a journal where you write down each day what actions you took in furtherance of your stated dreams or goals. If your journal is blank for a few days then you have got a problem because the truth is you should be doing at a minimum 1-3 actions each day that move you in the direction of goal achievement. This is why the journal is such a great tool because it’s an objective measure. If you’re honest with what you accomplish each day, you will be able to really see if you’re moving forward or standing still. And one thing I can assure you is nothing is ever accomplished by standing still so take action today to find out in which direction you’re headed.

Friday, April 16, 2010

Change your mind, Change your life...

I read that slogan somewhere. I don't know where, but it resonated with me. I realized that it is true. If we focus on negativity then we will be miserable no matter what is going on. I chalk it up to the sickness of "expectations". Now some people say expectations are a good thing, but in my way of thinking, having expectations are just another way to set yourself up for failure.
This is not to say that one should not have goals for themselves. Yes, have goals. Yes, have a plan. But, learn to be adaptable, and learn to never expect anything out of other people. I am not saying have "low" expectations. I am saying have no expectations. These two are very different ideas. Both are insulting to others. One puts people down and one puts them so far up on a pedestal that they cannot possibly live up to it. Both cause negative feelings and cloud your world in a way that sucks joy out of your life.
So, change your mind, and change your life by letting go of expectations and just living life as it is.


Author info:
Stephanie L. Watson is a Virtual Assistant, a Wife and Mom of four daughters who lives, loves and laughs in Huntsville, Alabama. You can learn more about her at Virtual Assistant Moms. http://www.virtualassistantmoms.com

Monday, April 12, 2010

Waiting for Life



So many times we are waiting for life to begin. When I complete high school my life will begin. When I get that job my life will begin. When I finish college my life will begin. Life always begins after... at some point we have to accept that life is happening right now. Today is when life begins. I did not realize that until I turned 30. Thirty isn't really old in the scheme of life, so that is not why I spent the day crying. I spent the day crying because I finally realized that I was waiting for life to begin and I had been doing that all my life. That day I cried because I decided not to do that anymore. I decided that today is my life. It's the day I realized that life is ongoing and not a destination. I suppose it is something everyone finally learns at one point. I mean it's not like no one ever told me, or I never read that in a book, but I just never accepted it until that day.
That day everything changed. I stopped waiting for everyone around me to be the way I wanted them to be and I became the person I wanted to become. I just simply, let it all go, and I grew up. I became a woman in charge of her own life.








Author info:
Stephanie L. Watson is a Virtual Assistant, a Wife and Mom of four daughters who lives, loves and laughs in Huntsville, Alabama. You can learn more about her at Virtual Assistant Moms http://www.virtualassistantmoms.com/

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Memories of Journals

This week we have a guest blog from Stephanie L. Watson about her personal experience with journaling.

Memories of Journals
I have always been attracted to journaling. I kept journals long before I knew what it was, or why I was doing it. I was drawn to put my thoughts and actions to paper, and then at some point to put them in digital format.
Before I had a computer I kept a journal of my entire pregnancy with my oldest daughter, Becca. I wrote every single day, a diary of happenings, and then I expressed thoughts and feelings in between. The journal was lost in a move.
My husband was in the military and we lost an entire box of my journals among other things. I often wonder where they are. Sometimes I feel sad that I can't read them to my daughter but strangely happy that someone else might be enjoying them. I don't allow myself to think of what else could have happened to them.
My memories of the journal are much more accurate than my memories of parts of my life when I did not keep a journal. Even though I do not have the blue notebook to view, I can remember writing the words, and the feelings the words evoked. I was a very happy, fat and satisfied pregnant woman. I was only 19, yet I had been married two years, and this was a planned pregnancy. I think I was the only person happy about it.
I'm glad that I kept the journal because the love I had for my baby was so strong and overflowed through my fingers and onto the page so easily that it taught me joy in writing. A joy that I still have today. Had I not learned that excitement I would never have finally, in my 30's gone back to college, and in my 40's attend graduate school.
Journaling also helped me deal with my feelings and the sad issues in my life. I was in a bad marriage but was not yet accepting that it was bad. Writing it all down made me see the truth for what it was instead of what I wanted it to be. It also made me realize I did not want my daughter growing up that way.
Journaling essentially saved me.

Author info:
Stephanie L. Watson is a Virtual Assistant, a Wife and Mom of four daughters who lives, loves and laughs in Huntsville, Alabama. You can learn more about her at Virtual Assistant Moms http://www.virtualassistantmoms.com/

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Chronicles of A Broken Spirit


Brief Synopsis: “Chronicles of A Broken Spirit”, is the surreal life journal entries from the life of a woman who encounters the highs and lows of marriage, divorce, careers, Christianity, parenthood and self identity.
Take a front row seat as Sherell Edwards captures the daily life experiences that inspired, shook, forever changed and molded one woman through many phases of life, while establishing a strong belief in the life and death of Jesus Christ and the principles of Christianity.
Not only, do you witness the change of identity but see the practical solutions to many of life’s challenges. Sherell captures, enlightens, inspires and encourages you through the struggles of a Spirit Broken and rebuilt again…

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Eat Pray Love Movie Trailer

While trying to get pregnant, a happily married woman realizes her life needs to go in a different direction, and after a painful divorce, she takes off on a round-the-world journey. Based on the memoir by Elizabeth Gilbert.


http://www.alltrailers.net/eat-pray-love-trailer.html


Check out this movie-Summer 2010!

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

FREE journal pages to start your journey!


Greetings, hopefully this blog site has inspired someone to move in their curiosity and start writing a personal diary (or journal). In case you need just one more nudge, we are attaching a free D*I*Y Planner (http://www.diyplanner.com/diyp_official/diyp3cl/diyp3_creativity_cl.pdf) file link with free journal sheets and additional planner forms included. Enjoy!!

Friday, March 12, 2010

Tips on Journal Writing


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iZ6G6WRUkr0




In this video, Playright, Laura Turner gives some conventional tips to starting, maintaining and writing a personal journal. While there is no concrete system for engaging in journal writing, there are some factors that will make this process quite effective for any individual.







  • Get in the practice of writing often, whether something dramatic is occurring or not



  • Can use a book or online journal (http://www.livejournal.com/) or (http://www.my-diary.org)



  • Can write in phrases or paragraphs or a combination of both



  • There are no set length or depth parameters required for journal entries



  • There are no "right" or "wrong" things to include



  • Realize this is your process



If you have or are considering the use of a journal, keep some of these factors in mind and START journaling....It's just a "snapshot" of your thoughts on paper!

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Diary or Journal: What's the Difference?




We use these terms all the time, and after a while we believe them to be one and the same, but are they? Webster-Merriam's online dictionary defines the term, diary as a record of events, transactions, or observations kept daily or at frequent interval; a daily record of personal activities, reflections, or feelings. The wordnetweb, was a bit more specific citing a diary as a daily written record of (usually personal) experiences and observations; a record written with discreet entries arranged by date, reporting on what happened over the course of a period of time. Okay...we get the what, when and some of the how. Often younger children become aware of and use diaries primarily to express their thoughts and feelings about certain things in life, generally written not with the intention of being made public or publicly known. As children gained freedom in the use of a private diary, it was given regular even daily attention but no required number of entries were mandatory. Daily entries became socially acceptable and were adopted as the basic norm. Remember, the infamous Diary of Anne Frank. Anne's diary recounted her days as a young girl living sealed off from civilization in Amsterdam, once German Nazi leader, Adolf Hitler came to rule. Her diary was found much later and recovered in Amsterdam by the lone survivor of the Frank family and her father, Otto Frank, meaning after Anne's death and unbeknowing to her father that they existed.




Webster-Merriam online goes on to define the term, journal as a record of current transactions; an account of day-to-day events; a record of experiences, ideas, or reflections kept regularly for private use; a record of transactions kept by a deliberative or legislative body. The Princeton library word search defined it as a periodical dedicated to a particular subject or a chronological record of data used to detect patterns and processes; a type of diary. The Princeton Library lists thousands of journals in the forms of articles, passages and documents written by experts in a particular field of study, based on research that the author or authors completed.




So, let's cover what we have learned so far! Diaries are primarily intended for personal use, entries are made into them daily, weekly or on a random basis, used to record feelings, thoughts and personal occurrences, are highly undefined and unregulated. They are also, used by children as an acceptable way to communicate and express their feelings without the confines of adults or society. Journals are deliberate, chronological records of data used to capture operations, processes, events that are written formally to capture specific patterns of thought and behavior, possibly using subject specific vocabulary or terms. Under the educational premise, they are referred to as scholarly or peer reviewed journals. Students use journals more in the current educational systems to assist their ability to learn and identify various behaviors, patterns and structured processes. Diaries in turn, tend to report back more objectively than the advice of our friends and journals, more of a subjective nature with the focus being on a particular subject, topic or process. The "where", for both diaries and journals can be anywhere! All you need is a pen and paper....




This writer prefers to define the diary as a personal "snapshot" of a time or period in life which has been captured by words. The journal is a record of experiences and occurrences highly intended for some type of public knowledge and use. As we examine them closely, other bloggers still believe them to be one and the same but taking a closer view shows there are differences. For instance, Anne Frank obviously wrote her personal diary to cope with and capture her life experiences during the Nazi Era as she and her family lived a secluded, substandard existence. It was only after her death and her father's unlikely recovery of the diary that it was published (1947). Today it is still widely read and exists now in 67 languages.




YES, both are written accounts... but their intended uses vary!


Friday, February 26, 2010

Chronicles of A Broken Spirit: Book Series



GREETINGS!

We have come to introduce an upcoming book series entitled, "Chronicles of A Broken Spirit", in which the author will publish real journal entries from the life of a woman who encounters the highs and lows of marriage, divorce, careers, Christianity, parenthood and self identity. Take a front row seat as we capture the daily life experiences that inspired, shook, forever changed and molded one woman through many phases of life, while establishing a strong belief in the life and death of Jesus Christ and the principles of Christianity. Not only, will the reader witness change but identify practical solutions to many of life challenges. The author intends for the series to capture, enlighten, inspire and encourage others encountering similar experiences. Each week we will post new information that will be intriguing to our audience, along with posting helpful tools, sites and supporting topics.

We look forward to bringing you more than you expect!


Until next time.....




The Staff

Chronicles of A Broken Spirit: Book Series